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Bookbed reviews: ‘Before I Do’ by Kath C. Eustaquio-Derla

by Allana Luta


For self-proclaimed “mean girl” Kit Castille and many women in the world, finding true love isn’t easy. But what if you meet a devilish stranger who challenges all the conclusions you have built in the past three years? What if you fall for him just before you got the perfect engagement, the perfect ring, and the perfect man? What would you do before you say “I do”? Before I Do is a hilarious, catty, and heart-breaking read for every girl who wants the wedding but not the responsibilities of marriage (at least not yet!). Read reviews: Goodreads


Reading Before I Do felt like chatting with a friend in a cafe, exchanging stories over overpriced drinks and laughing at the ridiculousness of life. It may be because the story was written in first-person POV, but the language and crassness and local slang made me relate to Kit more. The way Kath told the story is how people around me talk and she described places that were distinctly Metro Manila that I could imagine standing in the sidelines, witnessing Kit’s boy (man?) problems unfolding right before my eyes.

(Spoiler alert! Highlight succeeding text to read.) I liked that Kit is unapologetically a bitch. She knows it, her boyfriend knows it (and loves her for/despite it), her friends and coworkers know it. And she owns it, completely and unabashedly. I guess I just haven’t read a lot of local books where the heroine is a little more than nasty and proud of it.

Denver also really surprised me. If you’ve been following What Am I To You here on Bookbed, then you’ll know who Denver is. In BIDO, he is now a government official (I mean, wow, right?) but remains as Kit’s personal honesty pill, serving up harsh truths to slap Kit back to reality. He tells it like it is and it’s great. That’s the kind of friend we all need.


(Spoiler alert! Highlight succeeding text to read.) Parts of the story could have been edited better (and Kath admits so in her author’s note at the end of the book). I feel like it could have been more engaging had the readers been given time to fully appreciate the budding more-than-friendship between Kit and Will. The development of their relationship could have been fleshed out more. I just felt like everything between them happened too fast to warrant that kind of confession of Will in the end. But then again, I am a fan of slow burn so maybe fast and furious almost-romances aren’t my cup of tea.


If you’re looking for something short and bittersweet, with a humanly flawed protagonist, Before I Do by Kath C. Eustaquio-Derla might just be for you.


The author is launching a new book titled Before I Do Anthology, on December 30 (this Friday!) at Book and Borders Cafe Eastwood. First 10 to buy a copy on the spot get a FREE GIFT from the publishers. For more details, visit this link.

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